The Figure of Kartini in This Era

At the moment we can be proud our selves for Indonesian woman succesfull, who are able to parallel them selves and their prestige to men. I hope fully kartini’s spirit supporting the Indonesian womens inner heart never faded to the end, never cracked swallowed by the time and never dead by the fluctuation of the period. What ever the fluctuation of our character, morals, religion, culture, and the most important is association that’s association fluctuation of our habit and the human life, we can see from the example :

Not wide apart we found a million licentious of teenager, part of them : we found a pregnant girls out the doors, that’s shown us of free sexs, ended schooling, marry in the young age, gamble, gym, brandy and the greet numbers of lisentyes we not mention it.

So what the reason ? that the reason is only free association, free morals, free education, the freedom, feel independent whom drowsy without think of their future, without think that’s learning is important for our life moreover a teenager whom applicant our nation, country , whom organize this big organization of our distric of Indonesia. So how if our manager, teenager, organizer, are break shattered. ? 
Of course our big organization as same as our organizer. That’s back to whom first education,  to whom take care, to whom their parent, to whom their teacher and how the condition of greatest teacher for them. Is it right ??.

Whom best education for them, who brought greet of influence for their habit. At the side of our mother. If that mother is good of course that country is good because they teach, they educate our organizer, they educate our young generation tobe best of the best.

       At least that’s mirror for the figure of kartini in this period, for the figure of us, as a ladies, as a mother, as a wife, as a leader, as a teacher in this globalization era.

A million demand which given to the ladies from the smallest or lowest level till the highest level. Since we were born by our mother we have duty till we passed a way. As regard first basic figure as a woman those are : be a soft girl, be a week and patient. But a woman as wife given the duty to keep and care the formation and relationship of family by making a peace and happiness such as bringing up and teaching the child well, so why does the duty of teaching the child belong to a wife ?? how about father ? does not he ? yes, that’s right. In fact the child is a trust from our god to the parent both of them either father or mother but because a mother is the closest person to the child while a father has heavy load outside the home so a mother has right more to take care and teach the child well. It’s shown us that’s a mother is the first and the greatest teacher for a child. I think this duty is not easy because this case determines the household. But we should think that our god is never lay on us, never task out of our ability and capability. According that’s our god said in the holy Qur’an :

        Allah burdens not a person beyond his scope, he gets reward for that he has earned and he gets punished for that evil he has earned.

If the wife understands about the education well she will be able to educate the child perfectly and try to make her selves as good example for their children in everything either about attitude, behavior, speaking, habit, fill the soul of their children by knowledge and perform his individuality by a good moral, in the contrary of that. If a mother has not, it is not strange any more if the child can do something in the next, it is nonsense and impossible.

        Therefor the education for  woman is same as a man if we want to have skill, qualified, and clever generation, but the reality we find many persons consider that the woman has the duty only inside the kitchen, such as cooking, washing, sweeping, sleeping. What for does the woman study till high level ? if finally she works only inside the kitchen, only kitchen.

That’s opinion is wrong……….

If they understand the load of woman I believe they will fell that the load of woman in the household is very heavy. every body has right and a woman has right in everything that is.  she wants to be a doctor, an official, she wants to work outside the home. It is nevermind no body  has right to forbid it !!!! But don’t forget our duty as a mother in the home.

Posted by : Haminah